Truth be told, masturbation is something that 95 percent of young men do. Masturbation practice is one of the debated and least resolved problems in the church.
The views and opinions of the cause of masturbation; its effects and its spiritual consequences have been discussed through the church with no final solution.
In the Bible, it is so awkward that the word masturbation does not appear or any hint about the act of masturbation.
The solution to tackling masturbation should be directed towards the causes of masturbation.
It is a fact of life that individuals addicted to the habit of masturbation are not interested in what you know about the causes of masturbation until they know that you care about them.
Your assistance would not be accepted by anyone that is addicted to masturbation until they know that you love them and sincerely seek to help them.
That is one of the reasons why you have to take your time in understanding the background of people who are burdened with the habit of masturbating.
The Root Causes Of Masturbation
- Shyness: It is a sign of low esteem; inability to express your feelings or speak out in public. Most males are too shy to walk up to a lady and ask her out on a date. It will get to a point when you start fantasizing about what you could not do physically to a woman. When this feeling begins to grow inside of you, masturbating sets in; you’ll actually begin to masturbate gradually until you get addicted to it.
In other to break this habit of masturbating you need to get acquainted with the word of God and find scriptures that will help you overcome shyness.
You don’t tackle the habit of masturbating directly; you find the solution to the secondary problems that led to masturbation.
To make a tree good, it is wiser, first of all, to make the root good.
- Loneliness: According to my personal experience loneliness is a good reason, which causes masturbation. Loneliness can make an individual masturbate ruthlessly. The causes of masturbation can be traced to isolation and fantasy.
Loneliness is ultimately the root cause of masturbation. Loneliness is very often accompanied by feelings of deep self-hatred and anger.
When an individual is isolated from the real world relationship, one turns to fantasy and when the individual spends too much time on fantasy, it results in enslavement.
- Environmental Factor: The environmental effect of masturbation is that it is temporary and manipulated by the environment. The tendency to masturbate may disappear in a given environment. The
Environmentalfactor is one of the root causes of masturbation.
In one environment a twenty-two-year girl was surrounded with an unfriendly old girl where there was no mutual or real relationship and she falls prey to the habit of constant masturbation.
The same girl was taken to another environment kept in the midst of girls of her own age group and the habit of masturbation stopped.
She was masturbating in the environment of unfriendly old girls because she was lonely and isolated, but the habit of masturbation stopped in the second environment because she found girls with the same age group to relate in a real relationship.
If you really want to quit the habit of masturbation it is wise to avoid the
- Reading of Sensual Book and Magazines: Sensual books are romantic books that stimulate emotions. These sensual books do a lot of harm to our feeling. If you keep on reading these sensual books, there is no way you are not going to fall into the habit of masturbation.
The urge to masturbate actually begins in the mind. This is the reason some individuals who masturbate need even increasing mental excitement to attain pleasure and satisfaction.
- Watching of Dirty Movies: Individuals who masturbate are in one way or the other addicted to the watching of dirty movies and magazines. There is no way you are involved in the act of watching dirty movies that you won’t masturbate.
A man can only masturbate if his mind Is stimulated and excited. To stop the effect of this habit of masturbation or causes of masturbation, the renewing and cleansing of the mind are very essential. Romans 12:2.
The habit of masturbation can lead one to start nursing strange desires of committing adultery and sleeping with multiple partners at the same time. It can also lead to child molestation, bestiality, and cross-dressing.
- Emotional Breakdown or Imbalance: Most men use masturbation as a form of repairing their emotional breakdown, imbalance and relief stress.
What this actually means is that these men don’t know how to address their feelings of defeat, depression, rejection, sadness.
Masturbation never solves your emotional problems, but gets you more depressed and defeated. It makes you feel guilty and worthless.
Other causes of masturbation you have to look into seriously are:
- Fear of the Future
- Failed Relationships.